If at First They Dont Succeed - What a Great Opportunity!
When kids try new things, sometimes it's a 'fit' and sometimes a struggle. So what's a parent to do when they find that a child is floundering in a new activity? What if your son is in over his head? Or your daughter is not doing as well as either of you had hoped? What if they even fail outright? Often, they're tempted to give up. Just to quit. And with the busy schedule facing most families, supporting that decision can be a real temptation. But what's the lesson from that? Quitting just makes it easier to quit again later, or, worse still, can stifle the urge to tackle future challenges. When faced with failure at a new activity, another option is to help your child to take a lesson from the experience. Before they leave a troublesome or difficult activity behind, is there something that they can learn that will help them to do better the next time? The topic of 'my child's failures' is a tough one for some parents to look at. But here's a hint: try hard to keep them just that-your kids' failures. If you're concerned that their performance reflects on you, you're right. It does. But the 'performance' that most adults care about is the one that has to do with your child's values and character. The child who picks herself up, dusts herself off and gets back into the game, shows a level of resiliency and confidence that is a credit to both of you. No teacher, coach or fellow parent ever looked down on a parent whose child gave 100% effort. If your child isn't talented in sports, but tries and gives his and demonstrated good sportsmanship, you'll be regarded as a good parent. Andrea Patten, LADC is the co-author of What Kids Need to Succeed: Four Foundations of Adult Achievement now available on Amazon.com For more information about the Four Foundations, or to book Andrea to speak to your group, please visit http://www.whatkidsneedtosucceed.com
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Women with Bay Area roots take yoga to BeijingSan Francisco Chronicle, USA - 16 hours agoThis is the refuge San Francisco native Robyn Wexler and Stanford graduate Mimi Kuo-Deemer envisioned when they opened Yoga Yard, believed to be China's ... |
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After hours yoga classesamNewYork, New York - 3 hours agoBy K. Emily Bond | Special to amNewYork The Laughing Lotus, located on 19th st in Manhattan, hosts "Midnight Yoga" sessions Friday nights. ... |
Boycotting BikramChicago Tribune, United States - 1 hour agoThis is in response to the Bikram Yoga founder (Bikram Choudhury) interview by Julie Deardorff ("Yoga's top dog oversees a hot commodity," Tempo, Aug. 20). ... |
Smitty's NotesWinston-Salem Journal, NC - 22 hours agoAfter nearly seven years of friendly competition, two great yoga studios—with similar styles, philosophies and aesthetics—are combining into one ... |
Events happening in southwestern MichiganKalamazoo Gazette - MLive.com, MI - 8 hours agoThe class links yoga postures with the current of the breath. All levels of experience are welcome. Donations are requested. www.sanghayoga.com. ... |
News in BriefGeorgetown Record, MA - 5 hours agoPGH Kids Yoga studio at 52 Central St., Georgetown, is offering yoga mini camps and classes. For more information, visit www.pghkidsyoga.com or call 978.352 ... |
Events for mothers, children and familiesAlexandria Town Talk, LA - 16 hours agoOffered by J. William Hedrick, MD, a certified Kripalu Yoga Teacher. Parent/Child Classes are Tuesdays at 9 am and Thursdays at 6 pm Each class lasts 60 ... |
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